So I finished up my last library book The 100 Thing Challenge. I sincerely recommend it. The author is not against buying things or having nice things. What he's against is mindlessly buying things just to have things, and how doing so can distract you from TRULY living an enjoyable life.
The phrase he repeats many times over, to reiterate his perspective of mindless purchases, is "American style consumerism."
He scaled down his personal possessions to 100 items (counting some things in groups, i.e. socks. he didn't count each sock or even his pairs of socks as an item. He counted his "collection" of socks as one item. He also DIDN'T count shared family items, i.e. couch, kitchen table, etc.)
I was also reminded by Katie, about a book by Judith Levine called "Not Buying It. My Year Without Shopping." Ouch. I can see that being even more of a challenge. I'm only 7 pages into it, but her disclaimer is this: "....will purchase only necessities for sustenance, health, and business, groceries, insulin for our diabetic cat, toilet paper, internet access."
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| I'm in the reading/narcolepsy chair. It's where we all go to read, but where I inevitably fall asleep drooling and snoring. |
I also found another book at the library called "Why Gender Matters". I love this topic, so I'm super excited to start this one. I get so frustrated with the mindset that boys and girls are essentially the same apart from genitalia, so we should treat them the same. Uh. No, we're not. We're different physically, so it only makes sense we'd be made different emotionally and mentally as well. Therefore, we respond differently to situations and experiences.
The third book I had waiting for me at the library was For Women Only: what you need to know about the inner lives of men.
This topic is also sort of along the same lines as Why Gender Matters. I've only skimmed the Table of Contents, but I can see the wealth of information already!
Having been raised by my dad, I can attest to the reality and relevance of Chapter 2: Why Your respect means more to him than even your affection.
Growing up, I remember my dad CONSTANTLY touting his desire to be respected and its importance. I'm constantly praying about and trying to find ways to be a better wife, so hopefully this will help :)
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| Sorry it's hard to read the cover. But, a shot of my crazy cat on a catnip-fueled rampage should make up for it, no? |
There ya have it. Hopefully I'll be able to finish these before they're due.
What kind of thought-provoking, non-work or school related books are you reading?
A Great Site I've recently found is called YOUR NEXT READ. It gives you recommendations based on other books you've read. Really cool.




Wow! Great suggestions here. Seriously every one of these books sound interesting to me. You'll have to let me know what you think of them!
ReplyDeleteI love narcolepsy chairs and drug-crazed kitties!! :)
ReplyDeleteThese all seem like such interesting books! I don't often read non-fiction books, but these sound like interesting reads (though, is it counter-intuitive to buy a book about not buying things? My mind is boggled!)
ReplyDeleteI love reading so much. God, I'm a nerd. I've seen that website before. Super cool, but my list of books to read is already so long, I'm scared to go there and check it out.
ReplyDeleteNarcolepsy Chair? Hahahahahaha. I would LOVE to read For Women Only.
ReplyDeleteLove the pics of you in the chair! Haha! So very cute, especially the last one with kitty. I'm adding those books to my holds list at the library.
ReplyDeleteLove the chair pics. I'm putting "Not Buying It..." on my reading list.
ReplyDeleteI just started reading The Help but I'm not completely into it. I'm gonna give it about 40 pages and then decide whether to abandon it or not.
Thanks for mentioning Your Next Read.
Your cat is adorable! I have heard of that book "not buying it", however the reviews I read made it seem that the book was not the best representation of what it claims to be. You'll have to let me know!
ReplyDeleteomg, an entire year without buying ANYTHING that's "fun"? That would be rough even for me - and I'm not a big shopper & don't consider myself to have any shopping habits/addictions/etc.
ReplyDeleteI use the fb bookshelf app. Sounds very similar - you rate books you've read & it recommends new ones to you (like Netflix does with movies). I love it! You can also see what your fb friends are reading, too!
i want that book on gender!! it's so funny to me, we keep thinking everything should be "equal", but i don't think equal means "the same" all the time, ya know? considering men and women are SOOO different! our brains just don't work the same.
ReplyDeleteI want to read that first book. Can I borrow that cushy chair though, haha.
ReplyDeleteWhat a comfy chair, haha! :)
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